[ charles has been running circles around people since he was eight, scott; don't take it personally. ]
No, Scott. Don't think of it that way. You must have your own boundaries, still. Codependency is never good, not for us, not for anyone, and it would be best to learns where lines fall while you're young. Both of you.
Some things in life you only learn through practice, and taking care of your boundaries is one such thing. Be honest with her, but remember it goes both ways. Love who you are in your own way. Not just in the ways that Jean cares for you.
I would give all of you the same advice, if you would have it.
[ don't be like your professor. he loved, and then he lost. he keeps losing, even when he wins. ]
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No, Scott. Don't think of it that way. You must have your own boundaries, still. Codependency is never good, not for us, not for anyone, and it would be best to learns where lines fall while you're young. Both of you.
Some things in life you only learn through practice, and taking care of your boundaries is one such thing. Be honest with her, but remember it goes both ways. Love who you are in your own way. Not just in the ways that Jean cares for you.
I would give all of you the same advice, if you would have it.
[ don't be like your professor. he loved, and then he lost. he keeps losing, even when he wins. ]